You are not alone. There are "sissy munches" (private social gatherings) in major cities like Atlanta, NYC, London, and Chicago specifically for interracial power exchange. Online groups like "Black Owned Sissies" on FetLife provide forums for advice, safety warnings about fake Doms, and shared experiences.
: It creates a safe haven for those who don't fit into traditional hyper-masculine expectations of Black manhood. The Intersection of Race and Gender Expression Black Owned Sissy
For sissies seeking this dynamic, it is vital to avoid fetishizing the Dominant’s Blackness. A Black Dom/me is not a "living stereotype." They are a human being with limits, emotions, and a life outside of kink. Do not assume that because someone is Black, they will enjoy racial humiliation language (e.g., slurs). You are not alone